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Bachelorette Parties on a Budget

Having Fun Without the Expense

If you're responsible for planning a bachelorette party, but you know that party-goers have limits on what they can spend, there are tips you can follow to ensure a memorable evening on a shoestring. And it isn't all that hard to do.

Staying In vs. Going Out

Although you may picture the ideal bachelorette party as living it up at a classy hotel, staying home can be a great idea. For one thing it's free, and the money you'll save on the hotel can be used for food and drink, decorations and party games. The ladies in attendance (except the bride, of course) can bring a dish and a game to be played--as risque as you want. You can decorate the home or apartment as foolishly as you like and even ask guests to spend the night, if a late night is expected. At home, the ideas are endless.

Limousine vs. Party Bus

While the stereotypical bachelorette party is a drinking event, it doesn't have to be. More and more parties take place at spas. Some involve a weekend getaway at a friend's cabin, and others revolve around a baseball game or other sporting event. The list is endless, but before deciding what the party will include, come up with a plan that respects each guest's pocketbook. Keep your eye out for group rates or specials.
Should you decide that you really want to go out for a night on the town, you will probably want a professional driver. While a limo is a fine choice, it's also expensive. A party bus or van may be the answer--a little less showy, but considerably more reasonable, it can take you wherever you like and return you all home safely. While you may want to hire a driver, consider hiring a friend who has a large vehicle. It might be a less costly option and will also include someone who is not a complete stranger.

Make sure to run your ideas by the future bride as well as the other guests. If everyone is happy--especially the bride--then consider the operation a success.